Ray Monroe Carr, beloved son of J.C. Carr and Alice (Keener) Carr, was born on June 10, 1938, in Ada, Oklahoma. He peacefully passed away on July 13, 2023, in Seiling, Oklahoma, at the age of 85. Ray's life was filled with remarkable experiences, cherished relationships, and an adventurous spirit.

Ray grew up in the Ada community, where he attended Bebe and Vanoss Public Schools. At the age of 17, he joined the United States Air Force, demonstrating his dedication and commitment to serving his country. During his time in the Air Force, he achieved his GED. Ray later joined the U.S. Army with his brother Paul, furthering his military career.

Throughout his life, Ray resided in various places, eventually finding his home in Vici, Oklahoma. He spent many years as a truck driver, earning a reputation for his spirited driving style often described as having a 'lead foot'. Ray's passion for the open road was evident in his work.

In his leisure time, Ray pursued several hobbies that brought him joy and fulfillment. He had a deep love for taking pictures, playing pool with his brother Don, and fishing, finding solace in the tranquility of nature. Collecting coins and visiting the Casino were among his favorite pastimes, indulging in the excitement and discovery they offered. Additionally, Ray was an avid knife collector, appreciating the craftsmanship and uniqueness of each blade.

One of Ray's greatest sources of happiness was spending time with his six special nieces, whom he helped raise and regarded as his own daughters. Their presence in his life, along with their 'grand babies,' filled his heart with immense joy and love.

Ray is preceded in death by his parents, J.C. Carr and Alice Haney, and his step-dad, Elvis Haney. He is further preceded by three brothers, Raymond Carr, David Haney, and Donald Carr, and two sisters, Mary Carr and Ruth Carr. He is also preceded by his brother-in-law Harold Taylor and niece Yolonda Smith, along with other cherished loved ones.

He leaves behind a legacy of love and cherished memories. Ray is survived by his brothers Paul Carr and wife Shirley of McCloud, OK, Harland Carr and wife Joyce of McCloud, OK, Alfred Carr and wife Kathy of Newalla, OK, Troy Haney and wife Tonya of Eufaula, OK, and Kenny Haney and wife Jesse of Stratford, OK. Additionally, he is survived by his sisters Elaine Taylor of Van Buren, AR, Linda Bennet and husband Dewey of Midwest City, OK, and Chloeann Parsons of Stratford, OK.

Ray will be fondly remembered by his six special nieces: Joyce Ratliff and husband Roger of McCloud, OK, Jennifer Roy and husband Adam of Vici, OK, Jan Nance and husband Tim of Vici, OK, Stephanie Carr of Midwest City, OK, Kelly Carr of Vici, OK, and Grace Lilley of Midwest City, OK. His sisters-in-law, Jeanie Haney of Warner, OK, and Linda Carr of Vici, OK, will also cherish his memory. Ray's loss will be deeply felt by numerous other nieces, nephews, relatives, and friends whose lives he touched with his kindness and generosity. Numbered amongst these other nieces and nephews were two that owe Ray as their namesake, great-nephew Dylan Ray Carr, and great-great niece Araya LaRaen Baker.

In honoring Ray Monroe Carr's life, we remember him as a patriotic serviceman, a skilled truck driver, a passionate collector, and a devoted family member. May his soul rest in eternal peace, and may his memory forever live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.

Funeral Service: Choctaw Church of God, Choctaw, OK, Monday, July 17, 2023, 10:00 A.M.. Graveside Service: Rosedale Cemetery, Ada, OK, Monday, July 17, 2023, 2:00 P.M.. Services in the care of Shaw Funeral Home of Vici, OK.